Suey Park Twitter Talk Blows Up: #NotYourAsianSidekick Sparks Discussion, Debate Over Asian-American Stereotypes
Updated Tuesday, 10:00 a.m.:
A representative for Suey Park sent a statement in which Park explained that the hashtag emerged from her frustration with Asian-American spaces framing success as social recognition from white heteropatriarchy.
“I do not see myself represented in white feminism, where a ‘seat at the table’ [is] equivalent to being a token of diversity,” Park said. “In Asian American spaces, I have been disappointed by the narrow ways in which we define Asian American and who we leave behind. #NotYourAsianSidekick is a new space in which those of us marginalized and silenced in Asian American circles get to tell our stories.”
Original Post:
A viral hashtag that sparked a dialogue about feminism, empowerment, homophobia and racial stereotypes in the Asian-American community continued to gain steam on Twitter and Facebook Monday after trending for more than 24 hours over the weekend.
The hashtag, #NotYourAsianSidekick, was started by Suey Park, who identifies herself as a freelance writer and graduate student on her Twitter profile. On Saturday evening, Park posted to Twitter and Facebook that she planned to use the hashtag to host a conversation about various issues affecting the community:
“I’ll be hosting a conversation using #NotYourAsianSidekick tomorrow morning go discuss Asian American feminism, stereotypes, myths, pressing issues, masculinity, cross-ethnic coalitions building, diversity within AAPI, immigrant experiences, generational clashes and more! Please join me and spread the word!”
The hashtag and ensuing conversations took off, and then some, with Asian-Americans and Pacific Islanders tweeting out some of the stereotypes that they face at home, at work, in relationships, in the media and elsewhere. Throughout the day on Sunday, the hashtag was the top trending topic on Twitter. Many Twitter users said it is a conversation that is long overdue.
#NotYourAsianSidekick because the "game" where you guess where I'm from is only fun for you, and pretty painful for me.
- Roma Panganiban (@romapancake) December 16, 2013
#NotYourAsianSidekick because it is actually appalling that BOTH Asian characters on #Glee had the last name Chang. How imaginative.
- Roma Panganiban (@romapancake) December 16, 2013
#NotYourAsianSidekick because Asia is HUGE, a singular 'Asian culture' isn't a thing, and I refuse to be homogenized by others' ignorance.
- Bina (@binaemanvel) December 16, 2013
When you ask me to wax poetic abt curry, arranged marriages, or polytheism #NotYourAsianSideKick
- Poonam Dreyfus-Pai (@poonam_pai) December 16, 2013
When White "feminists" tell me that I should be so lucky that White men desire Asian women #NotYourAsianSidekick
- N'jaila Rhee (@BlasianBytch) December 15, 2013
#NotYourAsianSidekick b/c I'm sick of people wanting to use me as a "good minority" to degrade Black women and pin us against one another.
- Suey Park (@suey_park) December 15, 2013
The conversations took a polarizing turn as some Twitter users accused Park of spreading racial intolerance toward whites.
@suey_park it's odd you are so against racism and you practice equality, when all you're doing is making generalizations towards whites.
- Megan Talbott (@megannt7) December 16, 2013
Oh look. More bitter liberal non-whites expressing anti-white attitudes. #NotYourAsianSidekick
- Ian (@Ian2813) December 15, 2013
Supporters of the hashtag didn’t see it that way.
Truly sad to see white people discrediting #NotYourAsianSidekick as racist against white ppl (???) - you even steal our right to victimhood
- Sook Min (@doloresonthedot) December 16, 2013
Park later tweeted that some Twitter users had created troll accounts in order to hurl racial slurs and rape threats. She accused “white supremacists” of co-opting and derailing the conversation, and said she intended the hashtag to be a “safe space” for Asian-Americans to discuss issues affecting them.
Does it make you white folks happy that your ignorance derailed #NotYourAsianSidekick? Do you think you get a prize for white supremacy?
- Suey Park (@suey_park) December 16, 2013
The coopting of my hashtag by white supremacists have given me new insight into white deviance! #NotYourAsianSidekick
- Suey Park (@suey_park) December 16, 2013
Despite attempts at derailment, tweets and Facebook posts continued to pour in as of Monday afternoon. While the hashtag is inspiring conversations about a myriad of issues, it’s safe to say that some tweeters missed the point entirely.
@constantnatalie A bunch of yuppies (apparently) whining about the Green Hornet? Yeah, #NotYOurAsianSidekick was TOTALLY worth my interest.
- Patrick Ross (@OutlawTory) December 16, 2013
Park did not immediately respond to a request for comment.
Got a news tip? Email me. Follow me on Twitter @christopherzara.
© Copyright IBTimes 2024. All rights reserved.