Lily Allen Defends 'Nepo Babies,' Blames Their 'Narcissistic Parents': 'We Crave Stability And Love'
Lily Allen has said "nepo babies" don't care about money and power as much as they look forward to having stability and love in their lives. She claimed the parents of these kids "are probably narcissistic."
The 37-year-old singer, who is the daughter of actor Keith Allen and English film producer Alison Owen, first sparked an online debate on nepotism Monday.
Lily tweeted people should be worried about "nepo babies" in politics and banks instead of blaming celebrity kids as they have more effect on the "real world consequences."
The nepo babies y’all should be worrying about are the ones working for legal firms,the ones working for banks,and the ones working in politics, If we’re talking about real world consequences and robbing people of opportunity. BUT that’s none of my business.
— Lily A (@lilyallen) December 19, 2022
A Twitter user replied to the tweet and said, most "nepo babies" aren't self-aware and are ignorant. Moreover, they are not "willing to admit that they are privileged."
Lily responded to the tweet Tuesday, explaining that kids of famous people often lack nurturing, love and stability because their parents are "narcissistic."
"In childhood we crave stability and love, nurturing, we don't care about money or proximity to power yet," she wrote. "Many of the nepo babies are starved of these basic things in childhood as their parents are probably narcissistic."
"And entertainment business is not parent-friendly eg.. Touring/ months away shooting. It can be hard to see one's own privilege when you're still processing childhood trauma, and a lot of these kids haven't figured that out yet," she added.
and entertainment business is not parent friendly eg.. Touring/ months away shooting. It can be hard to see one’s own privilege when you’re still processing childhood trauma, and a lot of these kids haven’t figured that out yet.
— Lily A (@lilyallen) December 19, 2022
While her tweets didn't go well with many online users, the singer noted in a separate post that she is a "nepo baby" and "literally deserve nothing."
And before you come at me for being a nepo baby myself, I will be the first to tell you that I literally deserve nothing. https://t.co/tnrz8v8OsF
— Lily A (@lilyallen) December 19, 2022
An online user called out the singer for being "ignorant to write off Nepotism in the arts in this way" because "nepotism does a huge disservice to poorer artistic communities, who often receive little to no representation."
Lily replied to the user: "People wouldn't have to choose financial security if the industries I listed above didn't rig the system against them. That was kind of my point. A fairer society would create more opportunity."
People wouldn’t have to choose financial security if the industries i listed above didn’t rig the system against them. That was kind of my point. A fairer society would create more opportunity.
— Lily A (@lilyallen) December 20, 2022
After facing backlash, the singer acknowledged she "seems to have riled people up" with her comments.
"I am nearly 40 years of age and am more than happy, in fact, I think it's important to disclose what a privileged upbringing I've had and how that has created so many opportunities for me," she wrote.
Lily shared how she worked "extremely hard" to get success, before noting she had "quite a fraught relationship" with some of her family members. So, she finds it "difficult" to attribute her success to them.
that people connected to my songs and that the songs came from me, I also had quite a fraught relationship with some of my family members so it felt difficult for me to attribute my successes to them, at the time.
— Lily A (@lilyallen) December 20, 2022
"Nepo babies have feelings," she added, noting how people love to laugh at the kids of famous people.
I promise you I’m not rooting for an industry full of people that had childhoods that looked like mine.I just really think that we can’t get to a real solution without identifying the real problem, as fun as it is to laugh at the kids of famous people. Nepo babies have feelings.
— Lily A (@lilyallen) December 20, 2022
On the work front, Lily will be next seen in the TV series "Dreamland," which is currently under post-production.

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